Archbishop Nicholas Duncan-Williams recently stated in a viral sermon that men should have at least GH¢100,000 in savings before organizing a wedding.
He argued against starting a marriage in debt and encouraged couples to prioritize financial stability over lavish ceremonies. Some of the key points of his advice are as follows;
- Financial Prerequisite: The Archbishop asserted that a man should be able to prove he has at least GH¢100,000 in his bank account if he wants to get married.
- Avoid Wedding Debt: He warned that starting a marriage with debt from an expensive wedding (e.g., bills for chairs or drinks suppliers calling during the honeymoon) can cause significant stress and “the ability to function is gone”.
- Marriage vs. Wedding: He emphasized that “marriage is not wedding” and advocated for simpler, church-based ceremonies focused on commitment rather than extravagant celebrations.
- Practicality over Show: He suggested that instead of spending heavily on a reception, the couple should use the money for practical things to build their life together.
- Focus on the Core: His ideal simple ceremony would involve “No best man, no maid of honour, no bridesmaid, nothing. We just pronounce the blessing of God. Go home. Make love. Make babies. Live your life”.
The comments have sparked a widespread online discussion, with some supporting his stance on financial realities and others finding his specific monetary requirement overly rigid.